Start Becoming The Person You Want to Be

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Updated 7/18/2019 to provide you with a consistently awesome experience here at Stop Weighting, Start Doing!

We all have a different story. Some of us have been overweight our whole lives, tried every diet in the book and are frustrated with our lives. Others have a medical condition that causes us to gain weight and makes it nearly impossible to lose weight. Some of us long to have families, but excess weight makes fertility a challenge. Yet for all of us, we have the power within to change our lives and start becoming the person we want to be. It’s never too late to go after our goals. Losing weight is just the beginning. Stop Weighting, Start Doing is more than just information about bariatric surgery, it’s about becoming the person you want to be.

Our History Doesn’t Define Us

Stop Weighting, Start Doing was born out of need for myself. You see, as I started my weight loss surgery journey, I looked for a resource online about someone who has been through the process and succeeded. I couldn’t find anything that fit the bill. Most were blogs that started right before or right after surgery. I wanted something that documents the process from start to finish. So, I created it.

Throughout this process, one of the things I learned was that our history doesn’t define us. I was the fat girl for so many years, and I was made to constantly feel like that made me a second-class citizen. When I went to a store for clothing, I could never find anything in my size, and if I would, I’d have to pay extra for the plus-sizes. If I went to a doctor for a simple cold, he would blame my weight for the cold instead of a virus. When I was in school, I was constantly reminded that I was unworthy of love because I was bigger than the other girls. I was made fun of for wearing dresses to a dance because I’m too “big” to be wearing a dress.

Yet, I didn’t let those past circumstances define me. I decided once and for all to break the stigma and mold of being the fat girl and decided it was time to be the fit girl. My weight was no longer going to hold me back from loving myself, from finding clothes at an affordable price or getting proper medical care. You too can decide to start becoming the person you want to be. All it takes it one decision to get the ball rolling.

Changing From Within

I understand that change is hard. Before I started exploring weight loss surgery, I was on a mission to improve my life. I learned how to get my finances under control, learned how to meal plan, took courses to find my dream job and organized my home. I am here to share all of the information I learned through this process. My hope is that it will help you improve whatever it is in your life you want to change. Life is far too short to be unhappy. The ability to change your life comes from inside your heart. It wasn’t a spouse, significant other, parent, teacher, friend or boss who changed my life. It was me.

The ability to start becoming the person you want to be comes from within. You have to decide that you want to be healthier, that you no longer want food to control you life, and that you are worthy of change. You will find so much self-worth and self-love once you start taking care of yourself. It’s true, you can’t take care of others properly unless you are take care of yourself. It doesn’t matter who you are, where you’re from or what you’ve been through, you can start becoming the person you want to be.

Never Too Late to Start Becoming the Person You Want to Be

Don’t ever think you are too old or too this or too that to go after your dreams. It’s never too late to start becoming the person you want to be. We can reinvent ourselves at any stage or any age of our lives. I know people who had bariatric surgery in their 60s and their biggest regret is not doing it sooner. Their lives are more fulfilled and enriched because they actually have the ability to do the things they’ve always wanted to do.

You can do it too. Today is the day you start becoming the person you want to be. Today is the day you put your old life behind you and embrace your new, happy, energetic life. You only get one life to live on this planet, so you better make it a good one. Your kids will thank you, your family will thank you, and most of all, you’ll thank yourself. You are worthy of love and good things. Believe in yourself, and you’ll go far.

Start Becoming the Person You Want to Be

So how do you start? Well first, you need to Stop Weighting, Start Doing (see what I did there?). Seriously, you need to stop waiting for someone to do it for you or for the right time or the right place. You’ll wait forever if that were the case. To start becoming the person you want to be, you have to start making changes in your life. Stay committed to those changes, even when times get tough. Believe me, I’ve been through my share of tough times.

Constantly remind yourself of your goals. What is it that you want to achieve? Why is it important to you? Write your goal down and post it on your refrigerator. Make a dream board if that helps. Go to Pinterest and look up success stories. These things will keep you motivated to continuing with your weight loss surgery journey. Come back and look at the posts I have on Stop Weighting, Start Doing! It covers information about bariatric surgery but also ways to transform your life in other areas too, like finances or hobbies.

The Domino Effect

Once you start improving one area of your life, it creates a domino effect to start changing more. You will want to improve your life not only in just your weight loss and health, but your appearance, finances, job and home. I think that losing weight has given me the confidence I needed to pursue more of my dreams, the ones that got tucked away in a drawer and forgotten about until now.I feel I not only have the strength and energy to go after them, but I also feel empowered.

One of the reasons I feel empowered is because I feel like I’ve finally found my God-given purpose. You see, when I was at the height of stress – just found out about my husband’s betrayal, at the middle of my pre-op journey, trying to just make it through the day without crying – someone close to me gave me some advice. He said, “Whenever you can’t get out of our own head, do something to help God’s children.” So I became more involved in my support groups on Facebook, and it took my mind off my own problems. Eventually, it led me back to this blog after I took a break to get my life together. Now, I feel as if God is calling me to help His children through this blog: to help motivate, inspire and encourage women to change their lives, just like I did.

Start Today

Start becoming the person you want to be, no matter your circumstance. It doesn’t matter where you’re from or what you’ve been through. You have the power within to change your life. If you no longer want to be the fat girl, it’s not too late. Remind yourself of your goals daily. Make small, lasting changes. Weight loss surgery is a domino effect. Find your God-given purpose, and you’ll be unstoppable. Stop Weighting, Start Doing is more than just information about bariatric surgery. It’s about becoming the person you want to be. Once you become this person, the person you were meant to be, it’s empowering. You can do it. I believe in you!

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